ini untuk rujukan dan review kpd ladies, young ladies or gugurls kt luar sana tu..this is my personal review lah...merujuk kepada perkara di atas...(kuang3x)...
cik kate never thought this will be happened to me!! (indeed)....but at last....org selalu ckp..yg kita xnk..yg tu la pun Allah kasi kat kita..(alhamdulillah syukur)..pssttt...tahu tak yg cik kate ni jenis bangsa perempuan yg mmg x penah pandang lelaki yg beza umur lebih 6 thun dri cik kate, which on the other words, cik kate mmg x pndang la lelaki tua...bahahaha...even though cik kate sbnrnya mmg penah ade steady BF yg agak berumur sket sebelum ni .....(ermmm....about 4 years ago), but still...i desire for someone like my age (+-).
cik kate dgn cik abg beza ehem3 (segan hokey nk kasi tau...ciss)...boleh kira ala2 cam dato' K n dato' CT, dato' Nazmin & datin Juma, Hans & Loofa andddd...namee roslan & isham (blogger). Korang survey n kira sendiri...lalalalal (survey ni cik kate buat bila cik abg dh start ajk serious tahu...2 hari i spent time dok baca kisah2 org yg mcm ni to get positive thought)
ape yg cik kate nk share ni...which more on pros n cons la sbnarnya...ape pe pun..let's cekidaut apekebenda....
- Trust - Deal dgn org yg dah lebih bnyk asam garam dri kita ni....tolong jgn doubt dgn dia...huh!! even cik kate di awl perkenalan penah la bermasam muka 2 3 hari psal tnya soklan mcm bini nk tngkap laki main kayu tiga gayanya...rasa mcm nk msuk dlm fon kalau cik abg buat x reti dgn cik kate...sbb dia mls nk layan karenah cik kate...(huhuhu...T_T)...waktu tu, Allah je yg tahu mcm mana menyesal sbb doubt kt cik abg tahu!!....so....u guys kt luar sana, please dont do same mistake ya...percaya la kt dia...in sha allah, percaya je dlu, kalau dia tipu pun, Allah nk selamatkan kita dari penipu, sbb tu Allah tunjuk kebenaran...sbb...tkut korang menyesal pulak kalau dia dh totally pissed of n fed up dgn korang..hah....time tu baru korang tau langit tinggi ke rendah. Jadi, this relationship akan lesson korang semua mengenai trust (how come i nk hdup kalau i x trust cik abg i sedangkan dia dok fly merata dunia cari rezeki!!)....dont waste time dok pikir pasal dia lah hai...dh dia percaya kt kita...why not kita percaya kt dia kan...
- Setia - Ohoo....this is the best pros about dealing with this kind of peoples......men's life start at fourty meyh!!...kalau dia dh ckp dia dh penat nk cri, he want serious relationship, and he mean it SERIOUSLY!!...so xyah la korang nk pikir2 dia ada perempuan lain ke tak...dia nk kwn...biarla dia kwn....cik kate pun ade kwn lelaki what...hahahah...see...lain la kalau ternmpak dah dia dok soping sakan dgn pempuan lain serta peluk2 lengan kt mall or shopping complex...hak tu mmg cik kate bom dia dgn bom atom nagasaki tuh tahu tak!!
- Tak berkira - keluar mkn semua dia payung, stakat nk benda kecik2 semua dia payung (tp tolong jgn over, coz lelaki mcm ni, they all very particular nengok pempuan yg stakat nk material dgn dia...hah....hbisla korang!!). Just act naturally, xyah nk harap sgt duit dia, nk beli brang, keluar je duit sndiri, yet dia bukan somi korang lgi...tp kalau dia dh kasi duit blanje tu...paham2 la (rezeki jgn ditolak!!). Tapi cik kate jenis xkisah sgt psal duit ni, im not his responsible yet...so....cik abg xyah la nk shower me dgn mcm2...i can get it myself ikot kemampuan diri unless....dia dh jdik cik somi cik kate...haruslah hujung rambut hujung kaki, sila maintenance ye ayah!!...hahahah (uppss...basically, he call me ibu n i call him ayah, sbb i kwn dgn duda ank satu u olls!!)
- Lambat response - Hoiii...relationship dgn org zaman2 mcm tu, kna sbr skit yer...dorang ni sbb dah ade career yg established, jdi dgn itu, cik kate nk umumkan bahawa lelaki jenis mcm ni semestinya busy...like mine, he is hectic busiest man in town (kdg2 bengang jugak cik kate)....ttpi...think positive,ce fkir, kalau dorang kaya, n they all meant to be with u, sape yg kaya....u kan??..hahahah...positive positive!! Jadi, calling seminggu sekali atau dua minggu sekali adalah perkara biasa dan whatapps/texting lmbt balas, or totally tak reply lngsung dlm sehari, sila biasakan diri girls. He will replace n reward it sooner or later (ekekekeke) with perfectly dinner or other treats...sbb dia tahu dia xder masa nk meleset2, jdi, he need to replace it with something much more pleasure.
- Tak suka kena tanya - Lelaki umur2 mcm ni, they dont really like to be questioning!!...dont ask to much, stakat tnya dah breakfst tu ok le...jgn tnya too personal, coz they will tell everything on one fine day. Ni dari pengalaman cik kate sendiri yg suka sgt tnya soklan critical thinking kt cik abg, sekali dia marah kau....terkejut mak!!...hah...lps tu kena lecture bukan main pnjang setengah hari (pdn muka kau kate!!). Lps tu, learn from the lesson, dont ask to much...and dont ask silly questions.
- Serious - Mungkin la dorang ni kena pikir serious je hari2....mcm2 problem kt tmpat keje, lalu, dgn kita pun, dorang akn serious....mmg susah nk tgok dia gelak berdekah2 melainkan kalau cite pasal moto besar, kete laju, n bola (cik abg cik kate superbike lover, so kdg2 cuit sikit je pasal hal moto dia, berjela2 dia explain, dgr je!! psstt...tunjuk sket minat kt topik tu jugak!!), kalau cik kate ckp pasal benda2 yg which i think funny, dia x gelak pun...sobbbssss....so...kita kalau nk gelak dgn lawak high impact generation kita, kena la cri kwn2 yg sama umur, sama generation...ngeh3...(i dont think cik abg cik kate nk ikot kalau cik kate ajk dia pegi main ice skating....nooooo....definitely!!)
(niat cik kate nk review every traits, tapi malangnya, cik kate ketandusan mood utk meneruskan review ni,....kita smbung next series)...bisa ya ladies semua....
cuma yg cik kate nk pesan, learn to know them as they learn to know us...but, mana yg bru knl tu, yg tak decide ape2 lagi, dont put u guys so much in the emotion that relationship, sb kalau jatuh nti sakit...so, lepak2 je...sempoi je...biar je, cik kate sndiri pesan kt cik abg cik kate, kalau bz sgt, he dont hve to reply me every time, just remember me every day when he woke up from sleep and every day when he about to go to bed...aha...ianya menjadi, he will text me during an early morning n late night, even just to say 'hi', 'morning', 'night', 'miss u', 'love u'.....and i think its enough la for unmarried couple yet, gila kau kalau dh kwen mcm tu...no fun right......hahahahah
banyak2 la buat keje sendiri drpd dok fkir pasal cik abg tu, put his nama in dua' je everyday...hehehehe....dia mmg x suka kita mengekor dia...hahaha...jdi. let we busy ourself with our own things. Trust me, they will find out when they kinda feels lost...hahaha....reverse psychology sket dgn org mcm ni...see...that is how to manage this generation...keh3....(cik kate mau kena bunuh dgn cik abg kalau dia baca ni, tp dont worry, cik abg cik kate tak bace blog2 ni, dia baca laporan business dia je, baca cheque ari2...hahahaha)...
Tribute to my lovely best friend, future hubs, future life partners, my love (sorry, belum jdi soul!!...sila jgn confidence sgt)...hahahhaa and my best motivators so far...
Encik Redzzlan Muhammad (Mr. Redz)
Love,
Kate a.k.a Mrs.Redz (ahaks)
till then few pictures of lovely couples yg beza jauh2 mcm kami2 ni.....wakakakaka...and belive me they just fine......ekekekeke
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